The quality of your life depends on the questions you are ready to ask yourself. Do you want complete happiness in your life and are you willing to do what it takes to achieve this. You marry someone to feel whole inside not when she says it's OK. If fishing is what makes you happy and whole, then it should be accepted. No questions asked. In fact it should be supported because it's a big part of who you are. You see my friend you create, promote and allow things in your life. You have control of this and this only. If you don't go fishing because she says no, then you have to look at yourself because you've allowed this type of behavior in your life.
Be committed, to do what it takes, to have what you want in your life. What do you want?........ and what is it going to take?
If better is possible, is good good enough? and remember successful people do what others don't.
I think that what you've asked here may be only a slice of the unhappy cake you've been eating for awhile and fishing only part of it.Maybe I'm wrong, if then I apologize on this point You've got to do what is right for you. Take care of yourself so you can take care of others...........................That's the way it should be for the rest of your life.
Hotrod