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Fishing in British Columbia => General Discussion => Topic started by: Rodney on August 25, 2023, 05:48:15 PM

Title: My father, 1937 - 2023
Post by: Rodney on August 25, 2023, 05:48:15 PM
I've already shared these photos in the other thread, but reposting so I don't derail that topic any further

As we approach what could possibly be a record return of Fraser River pink salmon in decades, it pains me to say that my beautiful father, 徐欽華 (pronounced Chin-Hwa Hsu) passed away early this morning after a very difficult month. He was 86. Fishing was his pure joy and throughout this year he couldn't stop talking about how much he was looking forward to this season, hoping to get one more crack at it. Even last week just prior to losing his consciousness, he urged me to have his gear ready as he knew the opening is approaching.

If you have met my father in recent years somewhere along the river or at a lake, you most likely would have noticed his big, genuine smile. He always wanted to talk to everyone, even with the limited English that he knew. His conversations were always filled with laughter and animated gestures. I was always afraid that he may be bothering other people, but time after time he proved to me that people are good in nature. He firmly believed that if you shower others with unconditional kindness, they will reciprocate. I thank you all for making him welcome over the years, being at the river banks with others were his happy moments.

He was also my biggest fan, which I failed to realize and took it for granted all these years. He religiously read all of your comments on here and other platforms by using the translate feature, and brought them up in conversations with me.

I plan to tell his story more in depth in a video when I can speak again. In the meantime, here are some photographs of our days fishing for pink salmon in the Tidal Fraser from the past twenty years. I hope you are all able to create some memories like this with your loved ones in the next several weeks.

❤️

(https://i.imgur.com/1h13vf4.jpg)

(https://i.imgur.com/w9WlZnz.jpg)

(https://i.imgur.com/MsSFssY.jpg)

(https://i.imgur.com/EgMj1pL.jpg)
Title: Re: My father, 1937 - 2023
Post by: Jelly_ on August 25, 2023, 06:17:33 PM
My condolences Rod. Im sorry to hear about your father's passing. Best wishes to you and your family, may he rest in peace.  :'(
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Post by: Fish Assassin on August 25, 2023, 06:19:47 PM
I'm so sorry to hear about your dad's passing. Condolences to you, Nina and the rest of the family. Rest in peace.
Title: Re: My father, 1937 - 2023
Post by: leapin' tyee on August 25, 2023, 06:47:14 PM
So sorry to hear the news.  My deepest condolences to you and your family.  May he rest in peace
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Post by: iblly on August 25, 2023, 07:13:19 PM
My condolences Rod. RIP
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Post by: Wade on August 25, 2023, 07:18:10 PM
Sorry to hear about your father, best wishes for you and your family. 願老人家一路走好🙏
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Post by: coastangler on August 25, 2023, 07:27:37 PM
My condolences Rod. Looks like what you had with your dad was very special. Rest in peace
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Post by: Phronesis on August 25, 2023, 07:57:07 PM
My condolences Rod ! May he rest in peace !
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Post by: vancook on August 25, 2023, 08:07:26 PM
My sincerest condolences Rod and to your family as well. May he rest in peace
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Post by: RalphH on August 25, 2023, 08:29:41 PM
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Title: Re: My father, 1937 - 2023
Post by: bigsnag on August 25, 2023, 09:13:34 PM
Rest in Peace, Mr. Hsu.
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Post by: flyrabbit on August 25, 2023, 09:59:04 PM
Sincere condolences...his smile is beautiful.
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Post by: Steelhawk on August 25, 2023, 11:49:26 PM
My condolences to you and family. May your beloved father RIP.
Title: Re: My father, 1937 - 2023
Post by: bigblue on August 26, 2023, 12:03:25 AM
My most sincere condolences for your loss Rodney.
May your father’s soul find eternal peace.
Title: Re: My father, 1937 - 2023
Post by: clarki on August 26, 2023, 12:06:47 AM
Thanks for sharing this tribute to your father with this online community, Rod, and I look forward to learning more about him from your video.

My sincerest condolences,
Scott
Title: Re: My father, 1937 - 2023
Post by: redside1 on August 26, 2023, 08:53:03 AM
Always a tough time, my condolences to you and your family.
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Post by: blueback on August 26, 2023, 09:35:23 AM
Sorry to hear about your father Rod. Best to your family at this difficult time.
Title: Re: My father, 1937 - 2023
Post by: Blood_Orange on August 26, 2023, 10:48:35 AM
Sorry for your loss. Hope you and your family are doing okay.
Title: Re: My father, 1937 - 2023
Post by: ratfish on August 26, 2023, 01:52:07 PM
My condolences Rod. thank you for sharing. When I catch my first pink this season I will release it with a thought about your dad.
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Post by: Spoonman on August 26, 2023, 05:46:09 PM
.....sorry for your loss....suggest you fish with his gear next time you get out....
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Post by: Stratocaster on August 26, 2023, 10:50:20 PM
Sorry for your loss Rod.  My condolences to you and your family
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Post by: Sinaran on August 27, 2023, 01:18:45 AM
My deepest condolences, Rod...節哀順變.....
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Post by: phatwop on August 27, 2023, 04:30:27 AM
Sorry for your loss to you and your family Rod. Be Well.
Title: Re: My father, 1937 - 2023
Post by: 4x4 on August 27, 2023, 11:46:11 AM

Sorry to hear this Rod.

It sounds like you had a good relationship with your dad and that is the best gift of all. He's at rest and the memories will always be there for you and your family.
All the best to all during this hard time.
Title: Re: My father, 1937 - 2023
Post by: FlyFishin Magician on August 27, 2023, 12:17:36 PM
So sorry to hear of the passing of your father. Deepest condolences to you and your family.
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Post by: fishfinder on August 27, 2023, 01:02:38 PM
My condolences to you and your family, Rod.
Title: Re: My father, 1937 - 2023
Post by: Darko on August 27, 2023, 08:21:20 PM
Sorry for your loss Rodney, your father lived a long life and it looks like you guys have shared a lifetime of fishing and good memories, very honorable.
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Post by: Quin on August 27, 2023, 08:34:30 PM
Sorry for your loss. He sounded like an incredble man.
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Post by: stsfisher on August 29, 2023, 08:18:06 AM
Sorry for your loss Rodney. Condolences to you and your family.
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Post by: azafai on August 30, 2023, 12:02:56 PM
My condolences. May he rest in peace.
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Post by: milo on August 30, 2023, 02:16:13 PM
I am very sorry to hear about your Dad's passing, Rod. I know very well what you are going through.
In time, the pain of the loss will fade, but all the wonderful memories will crystalize and you will be smiling every time you think of him. How could you not? He was a wonderful man who lived a fantastic life.

I will never forget the time (and tea) we shared a couple of years ago at that lake near Merritt. I could sense I was in the company of a great man. He was indeed, genuine and warm.

Rest in peace, Mr. Chin Hwa Hsu.
Title: Re: My father, 1937 - 2023
Post by: mykiss on August 31, 2023, 11:02:06 AM
My condolences Rod. I'm sorry to hear about your father's passing. Best wishes to you and your family, may he rest in peace.
Title: Re: My father, 1937 - 2023
Post by: ahans on August 31, 2023, 07:32:01 PM
May your dad rest in peace Rod. My sincere condolences to you and your family. I have actually seen him fishing with you for pinks on the Fraser and the excitement on his face when someone has a fish on!
Title: Re: My father, 1937 - 2023
Post by: Aurora on September 01, 2023, 06:52:16 PM
Fishing brought many things.  Among the best is sharing the experiences with your father.  Memories to treasure.  My most sincere condolences and hope you and your family will move on with the memories to bring you comfort.

Title: Re: My father, 1937 - 2023
Post by: Tee on September 05, 2023, 10:43:51 AM
Dear Rod,

My sincere condolences.